Jan 25, 2013

The Island of Discussion

The Island of Discussion, Glencoe, Scotland. It was a place to settle disputes. A place to resolve differences. Officially named Eilean a' Chomhraidh, the Island of Discussion is small and alone.

Yet, if legend and history are true, this island has served a noble purpose for many, many years.  Over 1,500 years or so. When clansman had a disagreement, this is the place they went to work it out.

The rules were simple. When there were quarrels or arguments, the feuding parties where taken out to the island and left alone. Left there. With whiskey, cheese, and oat cakes. And they didn't leave the island until the dispute was settled. The result, in over 1,500 years, only 1 murder in the area.



Glencoe Scotland
Islands in Loch Leven for NN0859
The largest island is Eilean Munde, and the one to the far left is Eilean a' Chomhraidh, The Island of Discussion.
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How do you handle anger? When you are frustrated with someone, what do you do? Does your frustration grow? Does it make you mad? Does it lead to action? Outbursts? Strong words? Threats? Bitterness? Alienation?

What about stopping it before it grows? The Island of Discussion. It's a simple concept. When you have a conflict with a brother, go and talk with him about it. Don't let the sun go down on your anger, do something about it today. Start with a discussion. Alone. In privacy, an island of your choosing.

Be encouraged by the Word of God:

From Romans 12

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. On the contrary:  "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.



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